Do you sometimes wonder why boys stare at you? Do you dare to notice where they are exactly staring at? Do you sometimes thought that the clothes you wear are just cute or sexy but turns out to be slutty?
You really have to be careful because boys have two brains. The first brain is inside their skull and the second brain is somewhere between their thighs!
SLUTTY: Shows the main attractive parts of her body all at once: cleavage, thighs, midriff, buttocks. You name it, she’ll expose it!
SEXY: Shows only one attractive part of her body.
SLUTTY: I’m so hot in this outfit.
SEXY: I’m so beautiful in this outfit.
SLUTTY: Will leave a guy bothered.
SEXY: Will keep he’s imagination about her personality.
SLUTTY: Dress to get attention. (objective)
SEXY: Dress to feel more comfortable and beautiful (subjective)
SLUTTY: Acts like a brat.
SEXY: Acts like a girl.
SLUTTY: Sex symbol.
You should always remember that ATTITUDE is also important. If you act like a bitch and you want to show the world that you are one, expect to be harassed.
Being slutty will only work for a couple of hours or for a couple of days but it is not a guarantee to make your guy stay. He will introduce you to his friends as a trophy but he will never introduce you to his family as his girlfriend.
It’s funny how we tend to boast the things we thought we knew; only to find out at the end that, what we knew, was fiction.
We sometimes thought that we knew ourselves, but after suffering from a dilemma, we end up wondering who we really are.
We tend to rush everything, our project, our High school days, our time, our age but in the end, we wish to go back in the past to fix things up.
When we’re young, we’re aggressive and stubborn but I’m wondering, do we really need to be old to be considered “wise”, “mature” or “responsible”?
I’m part of the “young” ones. We’re also known as “Curious People”. Like others, I’m always searching for wisdom. I read books, watch television shows but I, just like them, only get one thing, “Theory”.
I’ve learned that if you’re angry, you shouldn’t try to make decisions, before you judge someone else’s fault, gather enough information about his/her situation. I learned, after encountering those as problems.
I admit, I made mistakes; I meant it when I said I’ve learned. I sound so hopeless but I wish I could get the lesson first before the mistake.
From now on, I’ll try my best to accept the fact that I’m not always right. I know nothing. I should respect the past. I should be more responsible and most of all, I should make my life less complicated.
Who loves dry skin? No one. Dry or itchy, even scaly skin is a serious problem because it promotes aging thus causes more wrinkles. Every woman wants to have that glowing skin and that includes you.
Skin symbolizes beauty and aside from that, it has some serious functions like regulating our body temperature, excretes toxin through sweat and a lot more.
It is very important for us to take good care of our skin. If you neglected or ignored this habit, you can start nourishing your skin today:
1. Avoid the SUN. If you can’t avoid it, use sunscreen.
2. Stop your vices especially smoking. It promotes wrinkles. If you don’t believe me, you’ll believe me when you’re in your 40.
3. Taking a bath and washing your face are good but if you’re going to over-do it, it will cause dryness.
4. Don’t rub your skin with towels, it will cause friction, irritates your skin, expect wrinkles! I usually just let it dry. It takes some time but it’s worth it.5. Use coconut oil. It’s better than chemical-based moisturizers.
6. Eat well. Fruits are good, you can consider food supplement if you know or feel like you don’t get enough vitamins. Ask your Doctor before taking it.
7. Drink more water, less coffee or alcohol. No to alcohol is the better but if you can’t help it then do it seldomly.
8. Sleep for 8 hours. If you feel like you’re still tired, sleep again.
Try to make this as your routine. Start today.If nothing has changed after 2 weeks or after a month. Ask your parents, there’s something wrong with your genes! just kidding!
Do you sometimes notice yourself staring at your phone for hours? Do you sometimes feel like you’re waiting, always waiting for your guy to call you? ring! ring! ring! It’s time for you to wake up! You are in deep trouble, believe or not you are already chasing him.
If you are still having doubts, here are some ideas that may help you in realizing it:
1. You always start the call. You call him whenever he’s far from you.
2. You are the one who makes the plan for anything like date, your bf birthday celebration..ok! everything!
3. You ask him about his day, his future plan, his routine, almost all about him.
4. You check his Facebook account, his cellphone, his wallet, his bag.
If you are guilty with those four weird acts then I think it’s time for you to do something about it. I know how frustrating it is, but you need to be patient and calm yourself! How are you going to reverse it?
1. Be prettier than ever, prettier than the girl who chases her man a lot.
2. Be happy with him or without him
3. Have some time for yourself.
4. Go out with your friends.
5. Plan your day, keep yourself busy.
6. If you feel like you have the urge to call, turn off your cellphone.
7. Be more confident, more confident that the girl who chases her man a lot.
It may sound so difficult but you can gradually do it. Remember, If someone is interested in you, you don’t have to chase him. He will stay if he wants to stay.
When life gives you a little experience and you make it seem like it means the whole world to you, you will sound arrogant and pathetic!
People will agree to you. They will make you feel great about yourself but when you’re done and gone, they will eventually talk about you and your exaggerated stories.
When you always look good and someone suddenly said something bad about your looks or questions your skills, you tend to defend yourself at once like, if you’re not going to do it, your self-image will get low—-end of the world.
Your perfect life means a lot to you. You feel ill when you’re not the center of attention. You have a lot of friends but you don’t know that if you’re not with them, they actually play like your little frenemies.
You’re mean to those who are not as beautiful or as good as you. You are also mean to those who are better than you because you know that if people will know about them, you will become “nobody”.
People will hate you so don’t wonder why they sometimes tend to ignore or avoid making conversations with you. It’s not always their fault. You should try to analyze yourself, Do you still know how to respect people? Do you still know how to be humble? Do you know that the world is not all about you?
If you are now realizing that you are an arrogant person and you still feel like you don’t care at all….. you have a problem!
Travelling can give you a chance to discover your inner self. It will let you understand life more than you could ever imagine.
I prepared myself a lot before I moved to another country but the preparation I made wasn’t enough for me because I still suffered those common problems that usually encountered by a traveler.
I thought it was easy to control my thoughts and yearnings but the first six months gave me a hard time. I missed everything! I missed the food. I missed my family. I missed my own culture.
I was confident to move to another country because I thought knowing English would be good enough but I only found myself feeling kind of stupid.. My host and I were sometimes agreeing with something and found ourselves misunderstood. It was kind of tough!
I found it easier to trust foreign people than Filipinos abroad. I encountered some problems with Filipinos who lived there for 5 years or more, they were rude and arrogant but those problems didn’t stop me from enjoying my time with other people.
Work- Related Issues
Working abroad is easy if you are assertive. Some foreign people are used to the idea that Filipinos are hardworking and can be abused when it comes to workload. I had this problem but I didn’t let them abuse me. I talked to them about some things to avoid confusion. Luckily, I got a good feedback from my employers.
Time is so valuable, too. I had to be on-time with my appointments. I had to inform them about my schedule for the weekend if I had to.
Being in another country was like having a new life. I had to start learning another language. I had to eat what they eat, like what they like, and act like I belonged to them. I knew that If I wanted to have an easy life abroad, I have to embrace their culture and enjoy it.. and I did!
I survived a year abroad eating less rice, more pasta and bread but I learned to like it. My host mom was fond of cooking Greek salad, Dutch stampot and Italian pasta. She also like Japanese food. On weekends, we also have a good dinner! I missed her! haha
Vacation and Weekends
I spent my vacation in Belgium and Paris. I felt overwhelmed! Looking at those castles in Belgium made me feel like I was a princess in my past life! And, I felt like I want to shout to the world ” Yes, Paris is the most romantic place ever!” when I saw the Eiffel Tower.
I spent my weekends in Amsterdam wandering around Red lights District, visiting wax and sex museums, eating at chinese restaurants and shopping at H&M!
Four Seasons and Nosebleeding
Nosebleed in the morning, I suffered from this and I thought I was sick but it was just a normal reaction to the weather. I had this problem in winter! The best Winter- related experience that I had was when I had a snowball fight with my host family! haha
My favorite season is Autumn. I loved the color. I sometimes wished we have Autumn season here in the Philippines. haha
Traveling can trigger fear and loneliness. Traveling can literally make you feel alone but at the end of the day, you will find yourself gathering your strength to overcome these two.
My experience abroad made me realize that we sometimes have to feel lost in the world to find out that the best thing in our lives can only be found inside our hearts.
You can survive.